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Lori Borgman: You won't sleep after you read this
My husband is one of those people who can sleep anywhere, anytime.
He can sleep sprawled halfway on and halfway off the sofa, in a straight-back chair, with three grands crawling all over him styling his hair, and during cross-country flights with severe turbulence.
It’s a gift. The man is so gifted he can even fall asleep while I’m ...Read more

Ex-etiquette: Gone too long?
Q. My ex and I were married when we were very young. We had a child soon afterward, but my ex left us, and we were divorced nine months later. I have not seen or heard from him in 8 years. I remarried a wonderful man when my son was a year and a half old and he is the only father my son has known. Today I got a phone call from my ex’s aunt who...Read more

What's up with boys? A discussion with Jim Steyer of Common Sense Media
SAN JOSE, Calif. -- Amid a nationwide “masculinity crisis” that has caused boys and young men to gravitate toward traditional gender roles and often misogynistic content, researchers, columnists and political leaders have sought to understand a simple question: What’s up with boys?
To Jim Steyer, the CEO of the media literacy company ...Read more
NC bill bars Planned Parenthood from Medicaid, drawing concern on access to care
RALEIGH, N.C. — North Carolina Senate Republicans on Monday rolled out legislation to bar Planned Parenthood from the state’s Medicaid program.
The measure would require the state’s health and human services department to remove Planned Parenthood as a Medicaid provider, cancel any contracts with it and shift patients to other providers. ...Read more

Victim turned vigilante hunts con artists and shares most common red flags
The art of the con is just as much a part of human nature as the need for food, shelter, water and clothing. People have been attempting to get something for nothing, or get by with something, for as long as humans have been contemplating the meaning of life.
In "Anatomy Of A Con Artist," author and podcaster Johnathan Walton, himself a victim ...Read more

How to turn your home into the neighborhood hangout spot
With the new school year underway, you’ve likely heard new names — and requests to have friends over.
For elementary schoolers, typically that means getting the other parents’ contact information and setting up a playdate. However, things change for middle school and high school students.
Making your home a place where older kids and ...Read more

How to build a cult following: Lessons from fiction’s most charismatic manipulators
Why do we root for people we’d cross the street to avoid in real life? Fiction is crowded with liars, schemers, stalkers, even killers … and somehow, they have fan clubs. Whether it’s Tom Ripley’s suave cons, Amy Dunne’s razor-sharp vengeance, or Joe Goldberg’s murderous devotion, these characters inspire not just fascination but ...Read more
Older Generation Needs Love And Care, Too
Q: Now that my husband and I are empty nesters, we have more time on our hands and want to invest it in something else meaningful. Can you offer any suggestions?
Jim: During the parenting season, we understandably place great emphasis on the next generation: the children growing up today who will become the leaders of tomorrow. That's certainly...Read more
An Obituary for Earnestness
A 99-year-old woman died yesterday. Though I'd never met her, I cried as I read her obituary.
Her name was Marilyn Hagerty, and even as a nonagenarian, she was still writing the same gentle restaurant reviews that had made her briefly but brilliantly famous.
She wasn't famous in the new way -- she wasn't on TikTok, and she didn't have a ...Read more
Junk Science and a Fragile Baby
Chelsea F.'s baby, Teddy (both pseudonyms used at the family's request), was born with serious genetic problems -- heart defects, breathing issues and brain abnormalities. But when Chelsea rushed the 5-month-old to a Texas emergency room in January after he developed a fever, seizures, vomiting and what was later determined to be a brain bleed...Read more

CDC's new vaccine advisers recommend splitting up MMRV shot
WASHINGTON — The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention’s vaccine advisory committee on Thursday voted to make a significant change to the nation’s childhood vaccine schedule during its first gathering since members were handpicked by Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F. Kennedy Jr.
The committee voted 8-3, with one ...Read more

CDC vaccine panel votes against Merck shot for kids under 4
Robert F. Kennedy Jr.’s hand-selected vaccine advisers voted to change the way immunizations are given to millions of U.S. children each year, recommending a tweak to the standard schedule that cast a large shadow over the safety of the shots.
Members of the influential U.S. Centers for Disease Control and Prevention panel said Merck & Co.’...Read more

How to help kids with back-to-school anxiety
SEATTLE -- The first few days of school can spark excitement and anticipation for kids: they look forward to seeing friends, learning something new or getting back to sports and clubs.
But for many students, this time of year can also be one of significant stress.
As children go back to school, they may be worried about fitting in socially, ...Read more

Family guide to new movie releases
'HIM'
Rated R for strong bloody violence, language throughout, sexual material, nudity and some drug use.
What it’s about: An up-and-coming star quarterback enters into a secretive football training camp with his idol.
The kid attractor factor: This is a brutal horror movie, not for kids, but teens might be intrigued.
Good lessons/bad ...Read more

Ex-etiquette: Daughter clingy after breakup
Q. My 5-year-old daughter is so traumatized by her mom's and my breakup that she will not leave my side. She tells me she is afraid I won’t come back. When it is time to return to her mother’s home, I ask her if she wants to go to mommy’s, and she clings to me. When it’s time to go to school, I ask her if she wants to go to school and ...Read more

Lori Borgman: Bacon, salmon and pollen walk into an air purifier
We just dropped some serious money on an air purifier thinking it might help with my allergies. I have seasonal allergies. They’re bad in fall, winter, spring and summer.
I do a lot of sniffing.
Some days I sniff, hack and cough so much that if you heard it from another room, you’d think an old ranch hand is choking on chewing tobacco and...Read more

True-life page-turner about power, danger and finding your voice
Some memoirs invite you to sit quietly and listen. "Maya Blue" does the opposite.
Brenda Coffee’s story swings the door wide open and pulls you into a life that starts like a dream and veers, chapter by chapter, into places you don’t expect to go. It reads with the tension of a thriller, yet it’s rendered with the candor and empathy of a ...Read more

6 moving novels that explore the emotional depth of WWII
History’s darkest chapters are often best understood not through dates and battles, but through the intimate stories of those who lived them.
For readers drawn to the emotional weight of World War II fiction, these six novels balance sorrow with hope. Each powerfully reminds us: though war shatters worlds, the bonds of humanity endure.
The ...Read more

7 powerful true stories about growing up, speaking out and holding on
Some books whisper, while others hit like lightning … then there are the rare ones that do both. Those books tend to shift something deep inside you with their quiet insistence on truth. The following 7 books are shaped by memory and sharpened by resistance. They dig deep and unearth what we’re told to keep buried. Family dynamics. Cultural ...Read more
Make Sure Kids Get Enough Sleep
Q: My two kids are in elementary school. They're both really smart and seem to get along well with peers and teachers. But occasionally they go through rough patches where they're moody and just not keeping up with schoolwork the way I know they can. What can we do?
Jim: There could be a variety of explanations, but I'd start with a simple ...Read more